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How to Buy a Cheap and Legit Wedding Dress Online Without Getting Scammed

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//  by Cynthia // 11 Comments

Traditionally, wedding dress shopping is done in a physical wedding dress boutique. But, over the past decade or so, many modern brides are confident enough to break the tradition, and take on the convenience of buying their wedding dress online! While buying a wedding dress online may be easier, and a heck of a lot cheaper, there is a lot you need to know before you get started.  But don’t worry – I’ve done a ton of research and tapped into some expert advice about buying a wedding dress online. And it’s all here so that you can buy the wedding dress of your dreams, from the comfort of your home, without getting scammed.

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Why You Should Consider Buying a Wedding Dress Online

Buying a Wedding Dress Online is Cost-Effective

The main draw for buying a wedding dress online is the amount of money you save. You can buy a totally legit, designer wedding gown and save anywhere from 40%-50% compared to what you’d pay in a brick and mortar store. When you are shopping online, you are not physically walking into a store, which has lots of overhead costs. Stores have to pay rent, their employees, utilities, and taxes. Actually, you end up paying a lot of that for store owners because they tend to hike the prices up on their gowns just to stay afloat, let alone make a profit.

It is Convenient

Think about it- when you shop online, you are sitting on your own couch. You don’t have to travel anywhere in search of the perfect style. So, just consider how much you’re saving in gas costs and wear and tear on your car. I can also tell you from first-hand experience, that you’ll have a lot more options online. When you go into a bridal boutique, they’ll have a pretty good selection of dresses but they may not have the dress of your dreams. So you might end up having to go from store to store to find “the one”. When you shop online, you’ll have a much wider selection of dresses to choose from, all in one place.

Where to Buy an Authentic Wedding Dress Online

So now you have a better idea of the advantages of buying online, but I’m here to tell you that you have to be super careful about where you shop because there are tons of scammers out there. The thing is that although some people will make you believe that every online wedding shop is a scam, that is just not the case. There are some truly legit ones out there. But weeding out the bad apples can be tricky.

When you search for wedding dresses online, it seems as if all the sites you come across appear to be “reputable.” But, some are so much better than others. It’s important to read consumer reviews regarding each site you visit. A customer who has gotten ripped off or scammed is sure to publish a post, so pay attention. One of the biggest scams brides go through is paying a fortune for a gown that the site claims to be “designer,” but ends up being a cheap knock-off; looking nothing like the picture posted online.

You should never shop a site that you have never heard of before or one that is not featured in a major magazine. Never shop anywhere that doesn’t offer returns! Never shop online from a vendor that doesn’t have enough information listed on their website, like contact information or that doesn’t have phone customer service available!

The following sites are totally legit, must-shop stops when you are searching the web for the dress of your dreams.

Disclosure: We earn a small commission for purchases made through links in this post, at no additional cost to you. It’s one of the ways we keep this site running.

 

BHLDN
BHLDN (pronounced beholden) is part of Anthropologie so you know they’re the real deal.  They have a great site with stylists who are available to help you find the dress of your dreams.  Their stylists can give you styling and sizing advice, reassurance, tips on the perfect accessories for your dress, or just a second opinion.   It’s a very organized website that spells everything out for you when it comes to ordering online and understanding their policies.

They carry some absolutely stunning authentic gowns from major designers.   And they have brick and mortar stores in 16 major cities across the U.S. so you can go and try on the dress in person before buying it online. Oh – and another thing I love about them is that if your dress is in stock, it usually takes only 5-7 days for it to arrive!  With an excellent return policy, top-notch customer service, and exclusive dress styles, BHLDN is one of the best options for buying a wedding dress online.

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Photo Credit: BHLDN

 

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Although they are a huge fashion brand, Lulus just recently unveiled a bridal line for the more casual bride who is looking for gorgeous and affordable styles.  Their easy-to-navigate site is known for its impeccable customer service and they have an excellent return policy.

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Photo Credit: Lulus

 

Online Wedding Dress Shopping Tips

Ok, so now you have a better idea of the pros of buying a wedding dress online and how to avoid getting ripped off.   But there are three key tips you need to keep in mind once you actually start shopping for a wedding dress online.

1.  Pad Your Date

If you want the perfect dress, you have to have enough time for the dress to reach you. Don’t expect to have your ideal dress overnight. While some online retailers will ship an in-stock dress within a week, others can take up to 6-12 months to ship a dress (the same goes even if you were buying in a store).

When selecting a shipping date, you should aim to have your dress shipped well in advance of your travel date – not your wedding date. This is a biggie. If a retailer asks for your wedding date, you need to give them your travel date because that is the date they will aim for when shipping your dress. To be even safer, pad the heck out of that date.

You also have to consider alteration time. This can take about 3-6 months, on average! It’s smart to book a seamstress even before you place your dress order. She can take accurate measurements so that you can purchase the right size dress. You can give her a time frame as to when your dress will arrive and set up future appointments as well. And speaking of seamstress….

2.  Get a Great Seamstress

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This is what will make or break your online wedding dress shopping experience. You need to make sure you have an awesome seamstress on hand who has vast experience with wedding dress alterations. This also leads to my next piece of advice, which is….

3.  When in doubt, order a size up

A great seamstress can take in a large dress and make it fit your body. But not even a miracle worker can fit you into a dress that is too small. Most of the good online wedding dress shops will have size charts or in the case of BHLDN, a stylist who can help you pick the right size. But if you’re debating between two sizes when buying a wedding dress online, always go for the bigger size.  And then let your awesome seamstress work her magic.

Stay educated, aware, confident, and time-oriented during this process. If you are, you’ll get the dress you love, at a price you deserve!

Disclaimer: The information and opinions in this post are for general guidance only. Although we make every effort to ensure that the content is both current and accurate, errors can occur.

 

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Cynthia is the founder and editor of Destination Wedding Details.She has over 15 years experience in the Marketing and Event industry and launched Destination Wedding Details in 2010, shortly after planning her own destination wedding. Cynthia uses her experience and genuine passion, to inspire brides who are planning their dream wedding away from home.

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  1. Samantha

    June 22, 2018 at 2:56 am

    Hi Cynthia,
    I saw a wedding dress on two different sites. pgmdress.com and etsy.com, Do you know any of these sites? is it safe to orde from them?

    Reply
    • Cynthia

      June 22, 2018 at 2:26 pm

      Hey Samantha,

      I’ve never heard of PGMdress but if you google it along with the word “reviews” you’ll see comments from brides who have ordered from them (I just googled it and found a few reviews that weren’t too encouraging). Etsy is a global marketplace where any individual can sell products. I’ve purchased items from Etsy many, many times over the years and I love them. I actually recommend a few Etsy products on this site. That being said, I have never purchased a wedding gown from Etsy. The main thing you need to look at when buying ANYTHING from Etsy is the individual seller’s reviews. Because you’re not buying the dress from Etsy — you’re buying it from an individual who uses Etsy as their platform to sell those dresses. Some sellers have stellar reviews and others don’t. You can see how many stars they have and how many people have reviewed them if you look under the description on the right-hand side. For something like a wedding dress, I would make sure that the seller has a 5-star rating from at least a couple of hundred buyers. Good luck!

      Reply
  2. Alessandra

    March 2, 2018 at 10:57 am

    Hi Cynthia,

    Thanks for your post. It was really helpful for me. Please, have you ever hear about the website “Ailsabridal”?
    Thanks!

    Reply
    • Cynthia

      March 8, 2018 at 12:09 pm

      Hi Alessandra,

      So glad the post was helpful!

      I have never heard of that site before. :/

      Reply
    • Janet Hein

      November 6, 2018 at 3:40 am

      Do not order from Ailsabridal. I ordered an outfit for my sons wedding. It did not look anything like the picture. It did not fit right and they refused to refund me the $126.00 for the outfit. They are a rip-off and not not to be trusted.

      Reply
  3. Anna

    December 30, 2017 at 5:59 am

    Hi Cynthia

    What is your comments on an online wedding dress seller called missydress

    Tnx
    Thomas

    Reply
    • Cynthia

      December 30, 2017 at 12:55 pm

      I had never heard of them until now but there are a lot of red flags I see on their site that would make me steer clear. The biggest red flag is that they don’t have a phone number to contact. Their return policy is also really sketchy (i.e. you can’t return the dress if you don’t like it or it doesn’t fit).

      Reply
  4. mlealre

    May 4, 2017 at 8:32 pm

    These wedding dresses are very nice.

    Reply
  5. pat

    April 13, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    what should grandmother wear to a beach wedding?

    Reply
    • Cynthia

      April 17, 2017 at 11:00 am

      Hi Pat –

      Here’s a post on what guests should wear to a beach wedding: https://destinationweddingdetails.com/beach-wedding-attire-tips.html

      Grandmothers can wear a casual dress or 2 piece skirt suit. The key is to wear fabrics and colors that you will feel comfortable in on the beach.

      Reply
  6. Dom Smith

    April 29, 2016 at 2:58 am

    Thanks for sharing such a great and useful post about how to buy dresses online. Helpful post for all readers.

    Reply

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